seriously

My irritation level is beyond my limits... why do my brothers have to marry such dumbassess???? Ok only 2 of my brothers married dumbassess luckily the others have married very awesome people but the younger brothers how dumb can you be?????

Situation is like this: little brother is in Marines... he has a step son and a daughter and is married to a dumbass who seems to think that money grows on trees... she claims she thought she paid the insurance but in return she really didn't most likely because she wanted to make sure she had money to come out and visit us here in CO... now see here my little brother lives in base housing so he doesn't have rent/gas/electric/water to pay the only bills he has are car payment/insurance for said car/payment on washer and dryer/cable/phone and well that is about it... the car payment and payment on washer and dryer comes out of his check before he even sees it... so a month that leaves him with about 1900 a month roughly 950 a paycheck... car insurance is roughly about 150 a month phone 100 and cable about 100... so that would leave someone who has about 1900 a month coming in after taxes and such about 1550 right... on top of the bills you have to grab groceries right so that leaves someone who has to feed 3 people (daughter is only on formula/baby food) about 400 a month... so that leaves 1150 left... with a baby you have to have formula/diapers and baby food so there goes about 400 more a month that leaves you with about 750 left.. then you have gas for your car for the week it would be roughly about 55 for the truck they drive so there goes another 250 a month so now you are down to 500 leftover for the month... so wehre is your money going???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

now what do I do... do I be the nice big sister and help them out yet again??? or do I tell them no... UGH... I hate being in this prediciment!